Robert E Lee biography
It was a description like many others
offered of Lee - when he was in his 20's, his 40's, and all
through his life.
The young officer was no sooner out of West
Point than his mother died - he had always been very close to
her, and was her favorite son. "I owed everything to her" he
said. He settled her estate and then set out to visit her
relatives throughout Virginia. He was looking forward to one of
these visits in particular - The great white house on a hilltop
in Arlington where George Washington Custis, adopted son of
President Washington lived. More importantly, his daughter,
Mary Custis also lived there. Mary was a tall, pale girl,
somewhat fragile and spoiled, but easy going and warm-hearted.
Lee had known her since childhood, and had been in love with
her now for several years. He intended to propose.
At first, Mary's father protested. Lee had
an excellent name, a fine mind, and a trustworthy character; he
had everything, in fact, except money. Mrs. Custis, however,
approved of Lee, her daughter had her heart set on the handsome
young man, and Custis himself was a wealthy man - so in the
end, Lee's poverty didn't seem to matter much. The marriage was
delayed twice - once when Lee was sent to work on coastal
defenses in Georgia, a task that bored him but came in handy
later on during the Civil War - and he was sent to work on
Fortress Monroe, back home in Virginia. Finally, in 1831, when
he was 24 years old, Lee married Mary Custis in the Custis
family home at Arlington. It was a long and happy marriage, and
one of historical significance. For with Mary, Lee inherited
the Arlington house, with all it stood for. And what it stood
for was George Washington. The house was a virtual memorial to
Washington - portraits of him hung everywhere; the rooms held
his china, his bookcases, and the very bed in which he died.
Lee had worshipped Washington since childhood - now he began to
pattern himself after his hero more and more.
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